How to get your Ex back
So you want to get him or her back? Well there are a couple of very important things you need to have to get your ex back, and without them you should just move on to someone new.
Now if you don’t understand just how important these 2 things are, your ex will just drift further and further away from you until they are so hopelessly out of reach they’ll be gone forever.
If you really want your ex back – you need to learn and NAIL down these 2 key things:
#1 – Appeal to the Emotional Mind
Human beings have two different dimensions to their mind – the logical and emotional. Logic is engaged by our conscious thoughts which take place during active control of your mind.
However, the unconscious state of mind is not within your active control. It is the unconscious mind that is responsible for emotions and feelings. Call this the emotional mind.
Whenever there is conflict between the conscious and the unconscious mind, the odds are stacked with the side of the unconscious mind winning.
What that means is: Emotion usually outweighs Logic.
If you are able to appeal to the emotional part of your ex’s mind, you will be able to draw him or her back to you because that part of their mind isn’t within their conscious control.
They just won’t be able to help it.
The magic is being able to ignite feelings of desire, love and affection within them, and your ex will have absolutely no idea how you’re doing it. They will just feel this deep, inner urge to be with you again.
But there is another side to all of this.
Sometimes there are couples where one of them falls out of love and even shifts to disliking the very person they once loved so dearly. The reason for this isn’t because of a conscious choice made by that person.
It comes about from a deep and uncontrollable emotional level.
They have nasty feelings that have grown and then drive them to pull away from their partner.
You see, your unconscious mind is like the most fertile earth. Whatever you plant in it is eventually what will grow. So to get your ex back, you have to cleanse the negative image of yourself from your ex’s mind and replace that with a new positive image of yourself.
Once you are successful at doing that, your ex feel the old familiar desires and strong inner urges to be with you again… they will like you in the same way they liked you at the early stages of your relationship. They will find it impossible to keep you out of their mind and finally want you back at any possible cost.
# 2 – Change the Feelings They Connect to Their Mental Image of You
These feelings have been touched upon bit, but let me make something very clear – To get your ex to want you back, they must feel these 3 emotions for you again:
Attraction + Desire + Love
Right now, they might be feeling the total opposite of all those emotions. Very negative feelings like reluctance, anger or even hate and anger towards you. So in order to get them back, you must switch hate to desire, reluctance to attraction and anger to love.
Whenever we mentally picture a person, our unconscious mind gives us feelings associated with that person, which makes us either like or dislike them.
For that reason, you need to transform the image of you in your ex’s mind so they will associate feelings of attraction and desire with the image they see of you, in their head.
That it so powerful that your ex won’t be able to help themselves.
They will subconsciously start feeling intense feelings for you, and will be unconsciously compelled to want you again – even if their conscious mind is fighting it.
By not using this secret, then you are suffering a huge disadvantage, and are actually making a massive mistake. Not knowing this will lead you into future relationship problems and even failures – you will end up being confused and frustrated over and over again.
Now you’re probably saying – OKAY – I get that I need to captivate the emotional mind of my ex and change the feelings connected to their mental image of me.
But what exactly do you need to say and do to make it happen?
I want to give you exactly what to do for you ex to uncontrollabley desire you. Knowing this will hand you the power to inspire big time attraction to you in your ex’s mind, every single time.
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Wishing you the best in love and life ~ Vollanza